Never Outshine the Master
Always make those above you feel comfortable in their sense
of superiority. In your desire to please or impress them,
do not go too far in displaying your talents or you might
accomplish the opposite - you might inspire fear and
insecurity. Make them appear more brilliant than they are,
and you will attain the heights of power.
Never Put Too Much Trust in Friends. Learn How to Use
Enemies
Be wary of friends. They will betray you more quickly, for
they are easily aroused to envy. They also become spoiled
and tyrannical. But hire a former enemy and he will be more
loyal than a friend, because he has more to prove. In fact,
you have more to fear from friends than from enemies. If
you have no enemies, find a way to make them.
Conceal Your Intentions
Keep people off balance and in the dark by never revealing
the purpose behind your actions. Without a clue about what
you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them
far enough down the wrong path, envelop them in enough
smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it
will be too late.
Always Say Less than Necessary
When you are trying to impress people with words, the more
you say, the more common you appear, and the less in
control. Even if you're saying something banal, it will
seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and
sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by
saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to
say something foolish.
So Much Depends on Reputation - Guard Your Reputation with
Your Life
Reputation is the cornerstone of power, Through reputation
alone you can intimidate and win; once it slips, however,
you are vulnerable and will be attacked on all sides. Make
your reputation unassailable. Always be alert to potential
attacks and thwart them before they happen. Meanwhile,
learn to destroy your enemies by opening holes in their
reputations. Then stand aside and let public opinion hang
them.
Court Attention at All Costs
Everything is judged by its appearance; what is unseen
counts for nothing. Never let yourself get lost in the
crowd or buried in oblivion. Stand out and be conspicuous.
Make yourself a magnet for attention by appearing larger,
more colorful, more mysterious than the bland and timid
masses.
Get Others to Do the Work for You, But Always Take the
Credit
Use other people's wisdom, knowledge, and legwork to
further your own cause. Not only will this save you
valuable time and energy, it will give you a godlike aura
of efficiency and speed. In the end, your helpers will be
forgotten and you will be remembered. Never do yourself
what others can do for you.
Make Other People Come to You - Use Bait if Necessary
When you force the other person to act, you are the one in
control. It is always better to make your opponent come to
you, abandoning his own plans in the process. Lure him with
fabulous gains - then attack. You hold the cards.
Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Argument
Any momentary triumph you think you have gained through
argument is really a Pyrrhic victory. The resentment and
ill will you stir up is stronger and lasts longer than any
momentary change of opinion. It is much more powerful to
get others to agree with you through your actions, without
saying a word. Demonstrate; do not explicate.
Infection - Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky
Emotional states are as infectious as diseases: you can die
from someone else's misery. You may feel you are helping a
drowning person but you are only precipitating your own
disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on
themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with
the happy and fortunate instead.
Learn to Keep People Dependent on You
To maintain your independence, you must always be needed
and wanted. The more you are relied on, the more freedom
you have. Make people depend on you for their happiness and
prosperity and you have nothing to fear. Never teach them
enough so that they can do without you.
Use Selective Honesty and Generosity to Disarm Your Victim
One sincere and honest move will cover over dozen of
dishonest ones. Openhearted gestures of honest and
generosity bring down the guard of even the most suspicious
people. Once you open a hole in their armor, you can
deceive and manipulate them at will. A timely gift - a
Trojan horse - will serve the same purpose.
When you are Asking for Help, Appeal to People's
Self-Interest, Never to Their Mercy or Gratitude
If you need to turn to an ally for help, do not bother to
remind him of your past assistance and good deeds. He will
find a way to ignore you. Instead, uncover something in
your request, or in your alliance with him, that will
benefit him, and emphasize it out of all proportion. He
will respond enthusiastically when he sees something to be
gained for himself.
Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy
Knowing about your rival is critical. Use spies to gather
valuable information that will keep you a step ahead.
Better still: Play the spy yourself. In polite social
encounters, learn to probe. Ask indirect questions to get
people to reveal their weaknesses and intentions. There is
no occasion that is not an opportunity for artful spying.
Crush Your Enemy Totally
All great leaders since Moses have known that a feared
enemy must be crushed completely. (Sometimes they have
learned this the hard way.) If one ember is left alight, no
matter how dimly it smolders, a fire will eventually break
out. More is lost through stopping halfway than through
total annihilation: The enemy will recover, and will seek
revenge. Crush him, not only in body but also in spirit.
Use Absence to Increase Respect and Honor
Too much circulation makes the price go down: The more you
are seen and heard from, the more common you appear. If you
are already established in a group, temporary withdrawal
from it will make you more talked about, even more admired.
You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.
Keep Others in Suspense - Cultivate an Air of
Unpredictability
Humans are creatures of habit with an insatiable need to
see familiarity in other people's actions. Your
predictability gives them a sense of control. Turn the
tables; be deliberately unpredictable. Behavior that seems
to have no consistency or purpose will keep them off
balance, and they will wear themselves out trying to
explain your moves. Taken to an extreme, this strategy can
intimidate and terrorize.
Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself -Isolation is
Dangerous
The world is dangerous and enemies are everywhere. A
fortress seems the safest protection, but isolation exposes
you to more dangers than it protects you from: It cuts you
off from valuable information; it makes you conspicuous and
an easy target. Better to circulate among people, find
allies, mingle. You are shielded from your enemies by the
crowd.
Know Who You're Dealing With - Do Not Offend the Wrong
Person
There are many different kinds of people in the world, and
you can never assume that everyone will react to your
strategies in the same way. Deceive or outmaneuver some
people and they will spend the rest of their lives seeking
revenge. They are wolves in lambs' clothing. Choose your
victims and opponents carefully never offend or deceive the
wrong person.
Do Not Commit to Anyone
It is the fool who always rushes to take sides. Do not
commit to any side or cause but yourself. By maintaining
your independence, you become the master of others -
playing people against one another, making them pursue you.
Play a Sucker to Catch a Sucker - Seem Dumber Than Your Mark
No one likes feeling stupider than the next person. The
trick, then, is to make your victims feel smart - and not
just smart, but smarter than you are. Once they are
convinced of this, they will never suspect that you may
have ulterior motives.
Use the Surrender Tactic - Transform Weakness into Power When you are weaker, never fight for honor's sake; choose surrender instead. Surrender gives you time to recover, time to torment and irritate your conqueror, time to wait for his power to wane. Do not give him the satisfaction of fighting and defeating you. By turning the other cheek you infuriate and unsettle him. Make a surrender a tool of power.
Play the Perfect Courtier
The perfect courtier thrives in a world that revolves
around power and political dexterity. He has mastered the
art of indirection; he flatters, yields to superiors, and
asserts power over others in the most oblique and graceful
manner. Learn and apply the laws of courtiership and there
will be no limit to how far you can rise in the court.
Concentrate Your Forces
Conserve your forces and energies by concentrating them at
their strongest point. You gain more by finding a rich mine
and mining it deeper than by flitting from one shallow mine
to another; intensity defeats extensity every time. When
you are looking for sources of power to elevate you, find
the one key patron, the fat cow who will give you milk for
a long time to come.
Re-create Yourself
Do not accept the roles that society foists on you.
re-create yourself by forging a new identity, one that
commands attention and never bores the audience. Be the
master of your own image rather than letting others define
it for you. Incorporate dramatic devices into your public
gestures and actions. Your power will be enhanced and your
character will seem larger than life.
Keep Your Hands Clean
You must seem to be a paragon of civility and efficeincy:
Your hands are never soiled by mistakes and nasty deeds.
Maintain a spotless appearance by using others as unwitting
pawns and screens to disguise your involvement.
To Create a Cultlike Following, Play on People's Need to
Believe
People have an overwhelming desire to believe in something.
Become the focal point of their desire by offering them a
cause, a new faith to follow. Keep your words vague but
full of promise; emphasize enthusiasm over rationality and
clear thinking. Give your new disciples rituals to perform;
ask them to make sacrifices on your behalf. In the absence
of organized religion and grand causes, your new belief
system will bring you untold power.
Enter Action Boldly
If you are unsure of a course of action, do not attempt it.
Your doubts and hesitations will infect your execution.
Timidity is dangerous; better to enter boldly. Any mistakes
you commit through audacity are easily corrected with more
audacity. Everyone admires the bold; no one honors the
timid.
Play to People's Fantasies
People often avoid the truth because it is ugly and
unpleasant. Never appeal to truth and reality unless you
are prepared for the anger that comes from disenchantment.
Life is so harsh and distressing that people who can
manufacture romance or conjure up fantasy are oases in the
desert: Everyone flocks to them. There is great power in
taping into the fantasies of the masses.
Plan All the Way to the End
The ending is everything. Plan all the way to it, taking
into account all the possible consequences, obstacles, and
twists of fortune that might reverse your hard work and
give the glory to others. By planning to the end you will
not be overwhelmed by circumstances and you will know when
to stop. Gently guide fortune and help determine the future
by thinking far ahead.
Make Your Accomplishments Seem Effortless
Your actions must seem natural and be executed with ease.
All the toil and practice that go into them, and also all
the clever tricks, must be concealed. When you act, act
effortlessly, as if you could do much more. Avoid the
temptation to reveal how hard you work - it only raises
questions. Teach no one your tricks or they will be used
against you.
Control the Options - Get Others to Play with the Cards You
Deal
The best deceptions are the ones that seem to give the
other person a choice. Your victims feel they are in
control, but they are actually your puppets. Give people
options that come out in your favor whichever one they
choose. Force them to make choices between the lesser of
two evils, both of which serve your purpose. Put them on
the horns of a dilemma: They will be gored wherever they
turn.
Discover Each Person's Thumbscrew
Everyone has a weakness, a gap in the castle wall. That
weakness is usually an insecurity, an uncontrollable
emotion or need; it can also be a small secret pleasure.
Either way, once you find it, it is thumbscrew you can turn
to your advantage.
Be Royal in Your Own Fashion - Act Like a King to be
Treated Like One
The way you carry yourself often determines how you are
treated: In the long run, appearing vulgar or common will
make people disrespect you. A king respects himself, and
inspires respect in others. By acting regally and
confidenly, you make yourself seem destined to wear a crown.
Master the Art of Timing
Never seem to be in a hurry: Hurrying betrays a lack of
control over yourself, and over time. Always seem patient,
as if you know that everything will come to you eventually.
Become a detective of the right moment; sniff out the
spirit of the times, the trends that will carry you to
power. Learn to stand back when the time is not yet ripe,
and to strike fiercely when it has reached fruition.
Disdain Things You Cannot Have - Ignoring Them is the Best
Revenge
By acknowledging a petty problem, you give it existence and
credibility. The more attention you pay an enemy, the
stronger you make him; a small mistake is often made worse
and more visible when you try to fix it. It is sometimes
best to leave things alone. If there is something you want
but cannot have, show contempt for it. The less interest
you reveal the more superior you seem.
Create Compelling Spectacles
Striking imagery and grand symbolic gestures create an aura
of power - everyone responds to them. Stage spectacles full
of arresting visuals and radiant symbols that heighten your
presence. Dazzled by appearances, no one will notice what
you are really doing.
Think As You Like But Behave Like Others
If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting
your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will
think that you only want attention and that you look down
upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making
them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nuture
the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant
friends and those who are sure to appreciate your
uniqueness.
Stir Up Waters to Catch Fish
Anger and emotion are strategically counterproductive. You
must always stay calm and objective. But if you can make
your enemies angry while staying calm yourself, you gain a
decided advantage. Throw your enemies off balance: Find the
chink in their vanity through which you can rattle them and
you hold the strings.
Disarm and Infuriate with the Mirror Effect
The mirror reflects reality, but it is also the perfect
tool for deception: When you mirror your enemies, doing
exactly as they do, they cannot figure out your strategy.
The mirror effect mocks and humiliates them, making them
overreact. By holding up a mirror to their psyches, you
seduce them with the illusion that you share their values;
by holding up a mirror to their actions, you teach them a
lesson. Few can resist the power of the mirror effect.
Avoid Stepping into a Great Man's Shoes
What happens first always appears better and more original
than what comes after. If you succeed a great man or have a
famous parent, you will have to accomplish double their
achievements to outshine them. Do not get lost in their
shadow, or stuck in a past not of your own making:
Establish your own name and identity by changing course.
Slay the overbearing father, disparage his legacy, and gain
power by shining in your own way.
Strike the Shepherd and the Sheep Will Scatter
Trouble can often be traced to a single strong individual -
the stirrer, the arrogant underling, the poisoner of good
will. If you allow such people room to operate, others will
succemb to their influence. Do not wait for the troubles
they cause to multiply, do not try to negotiate with them -
they are irredeemable. Neutralize their influence by
isolating or banishing them. Strike at the source of the
trouble and the sheep will scatter.
Work on the Hearts and Minds of Others
Coercion creates a reaction that eventaully works against
you. You must seduce others into wanting to move in your
direction. A person you have seduced becomes your loyal
pawn. And the way to seduce others is to operate of their
individual psychologies and waknesses. Soften up the
resistant by working on their emotions, playing on what
they hold dear and what they fear. Ignore the hearts and
minds of others and they will grow to hate you.
Despise the Free Lunch
What is offered for free is dangerous - it usually involves
either a trick or a hidden obligation. What has worth is
worth paying for. By paying your own way you stay clear of
gratitude, guilt, and deceit. It is also often wise to pay
the full price; there is no cutting corners with
excellence. Be lavish with your money and keep it
circulating, for generosity is a sign and a magnet for
power.
Preach the Need for Change, But Never Reform Too Much at
Once
Everyone understands the need for change in the abstract,
but oin the day-to-day level people are creatures of habit.
Too muchinnovation is traumatic and will lead to revolt. If
you are new to a position of power, or an outsider trying
to build a power base, make a show of respecting the old
way of doing things. If change is necessary, make it feel
like a gentle improvement on the past.
Never Appear Too Perfect
Appearing to be better than others is always dangerous, but
most dangerous of all is to appear to have no faults or
weaknesses. Envy creates silent enemies. It is smart to
occasionally display defects and admit to harmless vices in
order to deflect envy and appear more human and
approachable. Only gods and the dead can seem perfect with
impunity.
Do Not Go Past the Mark You Aimed For; In Victory, Learn
When to Stop
The moment of victory is often the moment of greatest
peril. In the heat of victory, arrogance and overconfidence
can push you past the goal you aimed for, and by going too
far, you make more enemies than you defeat. Do not allow
success to go to your head. There is no substitute for
strategy and careful planning. Set a goal, and when you
reach it, stop.
Assume Formlessness
By taking a shape, by having a visible plan, you open
yourself to attack. Instead of taking a form for your enemy
to grasp, keep yourself adaptable and on the move. Accept
the fact that nothing is certain and no law is fixed. The
best way to protect yourself is to be as fluid and formless
as water; never bet on stability or lasting order.
Everything changes.