More on Ken's Staying On - 11/6/97

I posted my last paper, 'Ken's Request to Guest', on October 19th. Since then, the membership team has decided that there will be an input period so that members can confidentially tell the team how they feel about me continuing to live here as a non-member. I'm posting this paper at the beginning of the input period to respond to some of the comments on my last paper. Furthermore, I would now like to live here temporarily as a resident again, with the intention of beginning a provisional membership in January, or at the very latest by February 5th. This is when my period of acceptance for provisional membership expires.

I am now seeking to become a resident again rather than extend being a guest because this would not require an exception be made to membership policies. I also assume that people would rather have me here as a resident than as a guest.

As I wrote in my previous paper, I am postponing beginning my provisonal membership because I have not been able to make any plans. The last few months have been very trying times. I am doing better now, partially due I think to taking the herbal anti-depressant, Saint Johns Wort. I have been taking it for the last several months and it seems to have started helping as of late October.

I don't want to begin a provisional membership now because for me it would mean having to move my savings into riskier, longer-term investments that don't have the potential of producing income until they are sold. This is something I don't want to do until I can see living at Twin Oaks for at least six more months.

It's true that I could just turn over to Twin Oaks whatever income my savings produce. I don't want to do this. This is because: (1) The real value of my savings will decline, because of the cost of inflation. (2) I earned these savings by working very hard and on my own in the tofu business (3) I feel I already give more than my share to the community thru my labor and responsible use of community resources.

I'm not trying to change the community's income sharing policies. I'm simply trying to find a way to live here for the next two to three months, so that I can decide whether or not I want to continue living here for a longer period, and then make arrangements so that my savings are a non-issue, and whereby they have at least the potential to not decline in value.

I would have begun a provisional membership back in January if the community allowed members to earn enough income on their savings to keep their real value the same. True, the real value of my savings would have declined 'only' about $1350 over the course of the last year ($45K times 3% annual inflation), but this represents a lot to me. It is more than I have spent on living expenses in a six-month period during the years that I have been away from Twin Oaks (ex: I spent less than $200/mo while camping/travelling out west in 1995&1996).

You are my friends and I do support living in community. I 'invest' myself in community everyday when I do at Twin Oaks the same hard, wise, and responsible work that I gave to make Virginia Soyworks a success. It doesn't seem fair that I be 'penalized' for having been very frugal in how I ran this tofu business (I would turn off the kettle pilot light between production days), and how I saved more than 95% of the income I was earning (even though I was making under $10 an hour). I sometimes put in twenty-hour days, and worked sixty to hundred hour weeks.

I left Twin Oaks in 1989 to run Virginia Soyworks. I needed $10K to buy it. Twin Oaks was only ready to loan me $500. Given that the community couldn't have supported a much more 'pc' business, and given that I had shown myself to Twin Oaks to be a hard and smart worker, I didn't understand why the community felt it couldn't afford the risk, especially when I was offering the whole business up as collateral. I came away with the message that my almost four years of membership up to that point didn't count for much, and that I was a lot more 'on my own' than I had thought. This is one of the reasons why I am unwilling to make myself more dependant on Twin Oaks by reducing the value of my savings.

That's not to say that investing in the stock market has increased my savings so much. In fact, although there's pretty much been a bull market since I sold Virginia Soyworks to Twin Oaks (which I did at cost) in 1991, overall I've only kept up with inflation, and currently, this year my investments aren't doing even that. But what I did with this money was still my choice to make.

When I prepare a meal for the community, I take joy in planning it out and executing it responsibly so that the meal is made with high efficiency. I see what food needs using up, refer to notes I've made about amounts and recipies that worked well before, and map out how to lay out the steam table to have an attractive and balanced meal. I take joy in this because I know I'm doing a job well, I'm using resources wisely, and am feeding people who I care about, and a lifestyle that I support. Now isn't that enough? If I'm here at Twin Oaks for the rest of my life, then great. I probably won't be, but then that's fair to say of almost any of us. In the meantime, don't ask me to reduce the value of my savings. I view it as a lifeboat that I will need when I leave Twin Oaks, and while I live here my savings actually enable me to be more commited to the community because I don't have to be as concerned about how I'll make a transition when/if the time comes. I'd be happy to work and brainstorm with others here how to make that transition easier for others as well. I've written papers and proposed OTRAS for that pupose before.

The next several months will give me the time I need to make a decision about provisional membership. The time will be different in that I expect my mood to be much more elevated and stable than it has been. I won't just be scraping by from day-to-day. I'll be able to think about the long-term, and make some plans. I have the deadline of February 5th to work with (when my period of acceptance for provisional membership ends), besides that I don't want to remain as a non-member at Twin Oaks for more than the next three months. It costs me spiritually, as well as that I'm not working towards the benefits of full membership.